[3.11] gh-93883: elide traceback indicators when possible (GH-93994) (GH-94740)

Elide traceback column indicators when the entire line of the
frame is implicated.  This reduces traceback length and draws
more attention to the remaining (very relevant) indicators.

Example:
```
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "query.py", line 99, in <module>
    bar()
  File "query.py", line 66, in bar
    foo()
  File "query.py", line 37, in foo
    magic_arithmetic('foo')
  File "query.py", line 18, in magic_arithmetic
    return add_counts(x) / 25
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "query.py", line 24, in add_counts
    return 25 + query_user(user1) + query_user(user2)
                ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "query.py", line 32, in query_user
    return 1 + query_count(db, response['a']['b']['c']['user'], retry=True)
                               ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~^^^^^
TypeError: 'NoneType' object is not subscriptable
```

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