[3.8] gh-80254: Disallow recursive usage of cursors in sqlite3 converters (#92333)

(cherry picked from commit c908dc5b4798c311981bd7e1f7d92fb623ee448b)

Co-authored-by: Sergey Fedoseev <fedoseev.sergey@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Jelle Zijlstra <jelle.zijlstra@gmail.com>